Unlock the Power of Personal Accountability Questions

Close your eyes & imagine yourself in front of your next target:

Pull with all of your strength, breath from the diaphragm and aim with respect to the wind. If patience is in your repertoire — when the moment is right — you just may hit your target.

The question then becomes were you aiming in the right direction?

This is one of the most important questions that too many refuse to ask themselves.

A premise at the crux of the QBQ method — question behind the question — which aims to determine how one person can contribute more towards the bottom line. By moving away from “surface level” concerns and towards more substantive inquiries, which more accurately reflect ones true feelings &/or aspirations.


Surface Level Questions Vs. Aspirational Questions

Most of us have never been an archer, but many of us have played a game of darts.

Think back to how you prepared for a match.

Did you follow the steps mentioned in the paragraph above or some scaled down variation?

Now imagine if the goal was to hit a target on the other side of the dart board or more practically on the other side of a veil — how would you precede?

If you’re like most people, you would find the request confusing… Then ask yourself something akin to the following:

  • Why would I want to hit a target beyond my aim?
  • Why are you asking me to change?
  • Why would I want to change my approach?
  • Why didn’t you tell me this before?
  • Why would you ask me to do something uncomfortable?

“Change is generally uncomfortable, but often necessary to maximize performance.” — Donte’ A. Bundrent

Q.B.Q. Method

The QBQ method is premised on the observation that our first reactions are often negative reminding us of the incorrect question (iQ). Thus, the one guiding principle of the QBQ is that “the answers are the questions.”

The QBQ method compels us to focus on a particular type of question that forces us to think in a different way.

Shifting ones approach from the pursuit of answers, and towards the habit of questioning preexisting answers and identifying opportunities to take responsibility for future outcomes. A shift towards personal accountability in respect to our lives and organizations.

Apply this approach to your personal / professional life and you will quickly find that you are leaving opportunity for improvement on the table or better yet, underneath the table.

Opportunities that will demand action. Realized by asking yourself personal accountability questions, which illuminate our true targets behind the veil. Targets that in the past would have remained hidden — out of sight and out of mind, like the backside of a dart board.

Finding QBQ answers is the process of peeling back the onion.

With the removal of each layer you will gain a deeper insight into your pain points and goals. With the end result being an escape from victimization, procrastination, and counterproductive blame games.


“Lead from the front and identify pain points.”

The man or woman, who is willing to go towards the problems, is the leader who is capable of navigating the team through the worst storms.

These leaders take responsibility for performance outcomes. By making better decisions and being accountable for improvements while questioning past methodology.

Peel & Shot

“Consistency is way more important than intensity,” — SimonSinek

The perfect shot still has room for improvement. As we continue to hone our craft and ask ourselves probing questions we position ourselves for unfettered growth. The process of digging deeper will expose the roots of our organization and allow us to fertilize our strategic process, and in turn establish new work flows while avoiding potential pitfalls. Removing the mask or veil surrounding our areas of opportunity.

In short, QBQ is a fundamentally straight forward process of asking ourselves “why” & “how” questions until we reach the core issue:

Why or Why Not? How or How To?


Key Takeaways

  • It takes time to reach our core issues, our onions have many layers, some which we have grown over like the rings in a tree trunk, but in the end, if we take action — we will unlock our true potential.
  • Personal Accountability is something you can start working towards today.

Questioning our answers can be tough. Especially when we have grown accustom to a given shortcut or heuristic.

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